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I had an erection when I saw guys naked in the locker room shower.
Does that mean that I am gay?

Not necessarily. Becoming aroused by nakedness, male or female, is sometimes a reaction to sexuality itself. Adolescents, in particular, are often easily sexually aroused. It is natural to be curious about satisfying sexual urges.

Time will tell you if you prefer sexual encounters and emotional attachments exclusively with other males. If that is the case then you are likely gay.

But what if I masturbated ...?

I have masturbated with other guys. Does that mean I am gay?
No. It is natural to be curious about satisfying sexual urges.
It is also common for same-gender teens to experiment sexually together.
That does not necessarily indicate, however, your lifetime sexual persuasion.

I have had erotic experiences with males and females,
does that mean that I am bisexual?

Not necessarily. Sexual orientation is developed over time. You will realize at some point whether or not you prefer emotional and sexual experiences with one or both genders. Some people become aroused by sexuality in any form … the gender of those involved in sexual acts or images is secondary to the actual arousal experienced. It isn't uncommon for heterosexual or homosexual individuals to have fantasies or at some point enjoy sexual encounters with the same gender or the opposite gender ... no matter what their sexual orientation may be.

I am a Gay, is it a mistake?

Not because you are gay. The American Psychological Association, the American Academy of Pediatrics, the American Psychiatric Association and the National Association of School Psychologists as well as other health professional organizations have long accepted the determination that homosexuality is not a disorder, and therefore is not in need of fixing.

In fact, it's been nearly 30 years since the American Psychiatric Association declassified homosexuality as a "mental disorder." That official action was done after exhaustive research on homosexual behavior.


However, society as a whole is still adjusting to non-heterosexual behavior. Thus, homosexual and bisexual individuals often face a unique set of prejudices and challenges once their sexual orientation becomes known. You may find yourself in need of help to cope with the reaction of others to your sexual orientation.

There are a number of organizations with outreach services to help individuals deal with the societal prejudices associated with sexual orientation.

Oral Sex tips

One poll cites that nearly 80 percent of men say that the love oral sex performed on them; another 15 percent say they like it. So, if you want to satisfy your man's favorite fantasy, read on because to most men oral sex can be the highlight of his sexual encounter.

What's more, many men find that watching oral sex performed on them is an added turn-on. With that in mind, you may want to position yourselves before a mirror or place a mirror nearby so that he can watch you go down on him.

Another tip that can improve the fellatio experience for both partners is to coat the penis with an edible, room-temperature substance of choice (wines and puddings are popular). Not only will he enjoy watching you "paint" his penis with the material, but you will also enjoy licking it off while performing oral sex.

Start by making sure he is in a comfortable position and gently stroke the inner side of one of his legs, starting near the ankle and slowly working your way up toward his scrotum. Repeat this stroking on his other leg before touching the genital area. After stroking both legs several times, end your final stroke by sliding your hand to the perineum (the skin between his anus and scrotum) and gently massage with your fingertips before stroking his testicles and the base of the scrotum. Grasp the base of his penis in your hand and slide your hand slowly up and down as you begin licking and softly sucking the tip of his penis. Move your hand just below the head as you lick the top and then lick the rim of the head as you slide your hand down the shaft. Lick the shaft just below the head and continue down one side toward the base, then lick up the other side toward the head.


Return your mouth to the top of the penis and dab your tongue at the tiny hole, start to kiss the head with a sucking motion (just as you might the peak atop a cone of frozen custard). Close your mouth on the head and play with the head with your tongue while you continue sucking. Be sure to continue stroking his penis up and down with your clenched hand (don't squeeze too hard). Move your hand slowly down the penis as you begin moving your mouth down the shaft. Gently massage his testicles with your hand as you suck and lick your way back down the shaft toward the base; then repeat the action up the other side toward the head. (You may also want to lick each testicle and gently take each in your mouth before moving back up the shaft.)


Once your mouth reaches the top of the penis linger there and repeat the sucking and licking action on the head. When you are ready to go down on him, begin taking the head in your mouth as you suck. Meanwhile, once again grasp the shaft of the penis and perform a stroking motion as you suck the head and begin taking some of the penis shaft into your mouth. Swirl your tongue as you suck and take more and more of the penis in your mouth as you increase the fisted stroking action. Synchronize your up and down stroking with the up and down sucking motion. Lovers who are experienced at fellatio usually learn to comfortably accommodate the entire penis in their mouths … or whatever extends beyond the clenched hand.

If oral sex is part of foreplay, be sure your partner tells you or indicates when ejaculation is imminent. This will enable you to cease oral stimulation in time for him to begin intercourse. Many men enjoy fellatio performed until they ejaculate. Discuss the possibility with your lover beforehand so you are prepared to pleasure him until he is spent. If you are performing fellatio on a longtime lover … and you know that he is disease free … you may want to continue sucking his penis until he fully ejaculates.

If he is truly disease free then his semen is safe to swallow.

Real Body Chemistry

Scientists are actually getting closer to pinning down the chemical in the "body chemistry" that may attract the opposite sex _ pheromones. Pheromones, those naturally produced chemicals emitted by all organisms, have been the topic of animal and insect studies for decades. Now, human pheromones are under the microscope and the science community has high hopes that they may hold the key to what really turns us on.

Years ago, research proved that female moths emit the pheromones that ace as aphrodisiacs to attract the opposite sex. Additionally, it was discovered that male moths use their antennae to hone in on female pheromone emissions … and can do so even when exposed to a variety of other scents.

(This knowledge has actually been put to practical use. Scientists have developed a means to protect crops through the controlled release of pheromones that lure insects away from fields that they would otherwise eat.)

In the last decade, researcher Martha McClintock of the University of Chicago conducted a study that confirms that 68 percent of women participating in the study were affected by exposure to pheromones. That information has sparked an interest in the scientific community

Yohimbine … Erection Herb
In fact, the FDA has described studies involving the response of animals to the ancient aphrodisiac yohimbine as "encouraging."
Yohimbine is extracted from the bark of a tree in Africa. Generations of natives used yohimbine to stimulate a man's sexual appetite. The natural substance is said to affect the spinal nerve centers that control erections.
The herb is also known to increase blood flow throughout the body, including the penis. Some people claim that drinking small amounts powdered yohimbine in tea increases sexual drive in humans.

Cardamom
The aromatic cardamom is another ancient herb attributed to increased sexual excitement. Arabs have long considered cardamom an aphrodisiac and ingest it in a potion made by breaking down the plant seeds in hot water.

Cardamom is known to not only stimulate more than a sexual appetite. The spice is heavily used in recipes that range from stew to desserts. Native to India, the spice that is derived from the cardamom plant is very expensive.

Rhino Horn and Oysters
Historically, some aphrodisiacs developed a reputation for sexual stimulation because of the real impact that natural materials have on certain individuals. For example, a rhinoceros horn is loaded with calcium and phosphorus. Should someone be deficient in either substance, ingesting horn powder might well produce an overall invigorating affect.

Another well-known alleged aphrodisiac is the oyster. High in zinc, oysters may also reasonably have a positive impact on someone whose body is lacking the substance.

Spanish Fly
If there is a term that could be considered synonymous with "aphrodisiac" it is likely "Spanish Fly." The substance _ derived from a dried, poisonous beetle _ has an infamous reputation for good reason. Its active ingredient is catharidin, a highly toxic material that works much like an acid. Catharidin's caustic affect is the reason that the beetle is also known as the "blister bug."

Just touching the creature can result in the skin absorbing enough poison to cause blistering. Catharidin has been known to sometimes produce sensations of sexual desire resulting from increased blood flow in the urinary tract and other areas affected by the poison. However, take heed that ingesting catharidin can result in a variety of ailments including vomiting, severe stomach pain _ and even death.

Whatever Turns You On
Viewing pornographic materials is enough to turn some men on _ yet only the real thing gets other men's sexual juices flowing. The world of aphrodisiacs is similar in that what may be a turn-on for one person may have little or no affect on someone else.
But you may never really know what turns you on unless you give it a try.

Does Penis Size Matter?

You apparently believe that size does matter or you wouldn't be reading this. You may or may not have an average penis size, which is 5 ½ to 6 inches, but doe it really matter? While you may believe a longer, thicker penis is the answer to satisfying lovemaking not everyone would agree, particularly women.

In fact, women who participate in an informal poll overwhelmingly said it is the quality of the lover that matters, not the quantity of the lover's penis.

However, perception is reality, so we at MyHealthyPenis offer the following information concerning penile enlargement options.

Naturally, you should seek the advice of a medical professional before investing time and money in any enlargement program. That said, there are a variety of products and programs on the market that are specifically designed to help elongate or thicken a penis … at least for brief periods.

Arginine
is a protein component known for allowing more blood flow to the penis, triggering the release of nitric oxide. It's stimulating effects have been cited in medical journals. Some say the substance appears to relax the smooth muscles within the penis, thereby allowing more blood to enter and create a large and firm erection. Others report no effect on penis size.

Ginkgo is a natural substance that is also known to relax the blood vessels, thereby increasing the blood flow to the penis. An herb, ginkgo is derived from a tree.

Pills
Penis Enlargement Pills are available. The pills are said to expand the penile tissue and increase the blood retention to produce a bigger erection.

The tablets contain a cocktail of natural herbs, vitamins and minerals that affect blood flow and will likely produce positive effects in some men. Others report no effect on penis size.

Smoking and Reproduction

In addition to possible impotence problems, the chemicals in cigarette smoke have also been reported to affect the hormones and enzymes in men, thereby influencing the sperm count.

Men interested in having children should do what they can to ensure that they have a high, healthy sperm count. So, if you are interested in reproducing, one of the first things you may want to toss out the window along with those condoms are those cigarettes.

Does circumcision reduce the risk for disease?
The notion that circumcision improves hygiene and the likelihood of infections has some merit, but there is not enough medical evidence to warrant a recommendation to circumcise for that reason

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Keep in mind that although the penis is a pleasure tool, it is also just another part of the body. It operates on hormones, blood flow and muscular reaction just like the rest of your anatomy. An erection is simply the result of increased blood flow into the penile tissue. According to a study of male sexual dysfunction by Columbia University College, the blood flow into the penile tissues during erection is about 11 times that of the a flaccid penis.

Given that information, it is important
that men experiencing penile dysfunction do
their best to lead healthy lifestyles.
Don't smoke
Drink alcohol in moderation
Eat sensibly
Exercise

Not smoking, drinking less alcohol, eating sensibly and exercising more
will not only increase your overall circulation but also
your sexual performance.