when this happen...

Im dating someone who likes going to club every weekend,well i wouldn't call myself a party boy per se...but I do club occasionally... sometimes on my own.
So, perhaps I still qualify to be a clubber....
From my perception, clubbing is to socialise, show off & have fun.
I do get a little naughty on the dance floor sometimes, get a little touchy feel-ly and stuff... But I don't think that means anything at all.

I find the whole point of going clubbing is to let your hair down... and lose your inhibitions. (Frankly, I don't get the people who go to clubs, just to stand around.) But so call "loose" behaviour on the dance floor doesn't mean this clubber is available for casual sex.

It is what it is...
"naughty behaviour on the dance floor"
nothing more nothing less.



I have had two indecent proposals thrown at me... but I don't find it difficult at all to refuse them. Why? Because I know what it is to have sex with the guy you love. Casual sex just doesn't cut it.

So can a relationship with a clubber last? Well, I am a human being, I too want love and stability... And I am also actively looking and dating... so for my sake, I certainly hope it does.

At the end of it... it's all about respect and trust. I respect him enough to know my limits and he respect and trusts me to be sensible and faithful